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  • Tasha Henderson had had enough of her daughter's poor grades and bad attitude, so she made her teen stand out in the street with a sign.



    Mom Makes Teen Stand on Street With Sign


     


    EDMOND, Okla. - Tasha Henderson got tired of her 14-year-old daughter's poor grades, her chronic lateness to class and her talking back to her teachers, so she decided to teach the girl a lesson.


     


    She made Coretha stand at a busy Oklahoma City intersection Nov. 4 with a cardboard sign that read: "I don't do my homework and I act up in school, so my parents are preparing me for my future. Will work for food."


     


    "This may not work. I'm not a professional," said Henderson, a 34-year-old mother of three. "But I felt I owed it to my child to at least try."


     


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    It's not the sort of thing you see everyday, but desperate mom Tasha Henderson did something notable though - she stood out there by her daughter's side. Hmm. Bet mom didn't say, "This is going to hurt me more than it hurts you."


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    Talking about tees with messages, folks are all riled up with this one featuring a menacing snowman.  Popularised by ex-drug dealer turned rapper Young Jeezy, the snowman icon is getting a lot of heat from schools and parents.


     



    Dr. Gilbert Botvin, director of the Institute for Prevention Research at Cornell University Medical College, has been studying what influences children to use drugs and alcohol. He believes that pop culture does play a role.


     


    "The research tells us that influences coming from the media can have a profound effect on kids and influence them to use drugs," he says. "All of these things help to convey the impression that engaging in these behaviors using drugs is normal and that drugs might help you be successful or sexy or something."


     


    Botvin says parents need to educate themselves about the media their kids are consuming and pressure schools to monitor what messages they allow students to advertise. More


     


    Does this hot fashion item legitimise ‘heroin chic’ or do impressionable kids know better? Read the lyrics to one of Jeezy's songs  So Icy, and tell me.


     


    The bottom line is, parents need to know their kids better.

  • Spotted a young teen today whose battle-green t-shirt was silkscreened with this message:


                      ARMY


                    Our son protects the homeland


    What's with the message, why is he wearing it, and what's it doing here in Malaysia?


     

  • AB Sulaiman makes a no-holds barred commentary on the state of education in Malaysia following our local universities' slide in international ranking. His frank and painful analysis leads him to admit that the unintended consequences of social engineering in the country is the 800-pound gorilla in the way of progress.




    The unintended consequences are dire: teachers teach only whatever is necessary and become mediocre in their performance, and students do not shine because they do not see any further than the need to pass an exam. They seem to be taught thus: “This is how I want you to think. This is the book you can read. Those are books you cannot read.” Do not talk about achievement motivation and striving for excellence to the students when they are taught only to conform and to the protection of the status quo.


     


    Teachers and students alike are reduced to conformists. Teachers have to conform to the wishes of the university management only in order not to jeopardize their career prospects. Students on the same token have to behave to help ensure their studies are not interrupted by dismissals. Teachers lecture in order to guarantee their monthly salary, and students study just to pass an exam and get a degree.


     


    What has caused the country to lead to the development of these negative features in the UM? Who is accountable for this entire fiasco?


    I picked the article from Malaysiakini (subscribers only) but follow this link to read the full piece.

  • As if Malaysia’s
    education system is not in a bad enough shape, here’s more bad news.
    Human Resources Minister Datuk Dr Fong Chan Onn said the week-long census carried
    out by the Economic Planning Unit of the Prime Minister’s Department uncovered 59,250
    graduates looking for jobs.

    The New Straits Times
    reported Dr Fong saying 81 per cent of those jobless had attended public
    universities and that the three main reasons the
    graduates cited for not getting jobs were:

    • No job experience (49.7%)

    • Poor command of the English language and lacking in
      communication skills (33.3 per cent)

    • The courses they took in universities were not relevant to
      jobs available in the market (32.2%).

    Another report in the Star had this to add
    about unemployed graduates:

    • They want only the easy jobs

    • They think they should not be inconvenienced by their work

    • They do not have social skills

    • They are just not hungry enough 

    It appears one
    reason for their poor
    attitude is due to over-protective parents who spoilt junior rotten by
    not giving him or her responsibilities at home. Of course there's the
    over emphasis on scoring A's, and excessive tuition, but I can almost
    hear parents complain that it's the system that's to blame. 
    There's this confusion and parents can't tell schooling from education, and pity the kid who has to pay for the misapprehension. Something's seriously amiss with
    education in the country and it’s a blight that’s tainted schools from primary to
    university levels.  

    A recent survey in
    the World Universities Rankings compiled by Times Higher Education Supplement
    (THES) revealed that
    Malaysia’s premier university Universiti Malaya (UM)  fell sharply from
    89th place in 2004 to 169th place this year. That’s an 80-place plunge. Universiti Sains Malaysia (USM) was in 111th place last
    year but this year it has been unceremoniously dropped from the Top 200
    bracket.  Poor show all round. 

    It’s a situation that should have invited soul-searching
    but not for university administrators at UM. UM
    vice-chancellor Hashim Yaacob
    instead made a boast of its Top 200
    placing in a farcical display during a press interview. He was quoted in a
    local daily that although UM may have slipped in its ranking, it nevertheless
    is better than some 30,000 major institutions around the world, having made it to the Top 200! En. Hashim expressed "great happiness" that it even did better than last year (!) since UM made it to the top 100 in three sectors. That's an educator speaking here. What’s more
    appalling, billboards
    (see pix) celebrating UM’s ‘achievements’ have appeared in the face
    of public criticism and even agitation for the smug vice-chancellor’s removal. There’s
    something comical about the whole business, but few people are laughing. 

    Across the causeway, Singapore's national university took a tumble too,
    from 18 to 22nd place. That's cause for a ruckus for anyone who has any
    sense of pride in their public institutions, although 4 places down is
    nothing compared to UM's abysmal drop. Curiously, someone wrote
    to the Straits Times online wondering if the slip may be attributed to
    insufficient 'branding.' You know, wrong perception of strengths and
    leadership, etc. Now isn't that something?

    I don’t want to go into
    an “I-told-you-so” slanging match but what’s happened can only be a sort of  vindication
    for homeschoolers. You won’t believe how many people have asked if by
    homeschooling, our two boys would be able to find a place in local
    universities.  Do you think they will see the light now?

    Links to other views:
    Education in Malaysia
    Lim Kit Siang

  •  
    After
    two years (!), my heliconia bloomed. Out on our small deck, I spotted the
    first sign of a flower, and what a gratifying sight it was. Weeks later, it was in full blossom. Yes, leaves
    are a little brown on the edge - just goes to show I'm not so good with flowers
    since I wasn't born with a green thumb. I usually water them in the
    morning, but Elliot gives the plants another bath in the afternoon (it's the heat and this plant drinks).

  • I'm the 190,434,783 richest person on
    earth!


    Discover how rich you are!
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    It's easy to complain about how little we have compared to wealthier
    relatives and neighbours. There's the classic story of the boy who
    whined about not having a new pair of shoes - until he met someone who
    did not have any feet. It's apocryphal but the lesson is clear. 
    Now here's a simple test to change your mind about how 'poor' you are.
    Click on the box above and follow instructions. My guess is, you'll discover you are probably  among 5% of the world's richest people.

    After you're done (and if you're not among the world's deprived), try to make an effort to help make poverty history.


  • Tsunamis in Asia.
    Hurricanes in New Orleans.
    Mudslides in Guatemala.
    And now
    a devastating earthquake in Pakistan.

    According to a report in Guardian,
    the International Red Cross says more people are being killed and
    affected by disasters. 2.54 billion people - almost half the people
    alive - have been through one disaster or another in the past decade,
    compared with 1.7 billion in the previous 10 years. Percentage wise,
    that's  46% up since the last decade.

    Following the 7.6 magnitude earthquake that killed up to 30,000 October 8,
    Pakistanis wait desperately for aid. 240,000 victims are in urgent need of emergency supplies in what President Musharraf
    calls “the worst disaster in Pakistan’s history.” As the international
    community rush rescue workers and medical personnel into the country,  it appears politics,
    race, and religion have taken a back seat. Former rivals Pakistan and India are
    cooperating in relief effort. Well almost. Israel has extended aid, but
    Pakistan - its harshest critic in the Muslim world - has been cool to the
    offer. 

  • I don’t know whether to applaud their audacity or their creativity but
    these Nigerian scammers simply won’t give up. Often called the 419 Nigerian Advance
    Fee Fraud, poor sods get ripped off (either out of greed or ignorance but I
    much prefer to think it’s the former) every year resulting in hundreds of
    millions of dollars lost. Authorities around the world are saying these scams
    aren’t slowing down and you just have to wonder what the Nigerian government is
    doing about it.

    There have also been some reports
    of lives lost and persons
    missing with regards to the scams, and there is every indication that
    these
    scams have escalated thanks to the accessibility of the internet. That
    it's still around after so many years is evidence that this clever con
    simply works. There was a
    time when I received variations of the scams via snail mail, but here’s
    one of
    several that arrived in my email box recently (note tsunami reference): 

    From: Williams Joeffrey Ruphus esq.
     
    The inspiration to contact you is simply divine providence,I
    am making this proposition because I have to seek the partnership of a resource
    person to help me realise this project.

     
    I am Williams Joeffrey Ruphus esq a solicitor and investment consultant based
    in
    london, United Kindom. I
    was attending a business luncheon in
    Berlin,Germany and I got
    introduced to the renowned German businessman and property mogul, Mr Andreas
    Schranner(of the blessed memory).
     
    He engaged my services as attorney and investment consultant and my primary
    assignment was to spearhead his investment forays in the United Kingdom.three
    months later I invited him to London and under my professional guidance and based
    on my advice he made a fixed deposit of 30,000,000,00EUR at with security
    companies in Germany and Netherlands.
     
    This deposit was for 12months and upon maturity I made effort to contact my
    client, I could not reach him or any member of his family. I was forced to
    travel to germany and there I got the tragic news that on July 25TH, 2000, my
    client Mr Andreas Schranner, his wife maria, their daughter eich and husband
    christian and their two children perished in the Air France concorde New York bound flight; please
    click here:

    http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/europe/859479.stm
     
    I have made effort to locate any member of his
    family with strong biological links to my late client without success. The
    search to find a close relation is one that has consumed time and resources.The institution is asking me to either present a
    next of kin to late Andreas Schranner or forfiet the depsosit. My proposal is
    to you as next of kin to late Andreas Schranner and process the deposit and
    collect the deposits for our mutual benefit. 

    My capacity as solicitor/investment consultant
    to my late client gives me the discretion to package and transfer the deposit to
    you.
     
    I will give you 30% for your effort, 60% for me
    and 10% for Charity and Tsunami Victims. It will amount to injustice if i do
    not take this decisive step to secure this deposit, and invest it . The late
    Schranner was also a friend in addition to our business relationship.

    I will wait for your reaction and response and then together we can jumpstart
    this project and nurture it to reality.

    Please, make sure you respond through this my
    confidential email
    address:
        williamruphusesq@katamail.com

                     
    or

          williamruphus@jmail.co.za

     Your swift response is anticipated.

    Yours faithfully

     Williams Joeffrey Ruphus esq.

    Related links:
    The 4-1-9 Coalition Website
    claims it is fighting scammers through education. Includes country
    specific guidelines to help victims from the countries cited.
    United States Secret Service Website pretty much covers similar grounds except that it carries a stamp of authority.
    Another version of the above con  is called the Black Money
    scam (in Malaysia, the con is frequently associated with Africans).
    Unsuspecting victims are shown a pile of blackened banknotes. Victims
    who pay for chemical dye removers end up with useless bundles of paper
    and an expensive lesson about greed. South African police warn about
    Black Money in this news report.

  • What next for converts?

    Freedom
    of religious expression in Malaysia continues to be dogged by issues
    such as this. I have blogged about Lina
    Joy previously, and this latest development is upsetting. It
    does not help that religious sensitivity in a country that is
    predominantly muslim makes comments and discourse almost impossible.

     


     

    Kuala
    Lumpur (AsiaNews/Agencies) - In a society where those born as Malays
    are automatically declared to be Muslim, Lina Joy had to fight to be
    recognized as a Christian. A superior court ruled on Monday 19
    September that the Malay people (one out of four ethnic groups - Malay,
    Chinese, Indians and tribals - of the country) "cannot renounce Islam":
    in this way, the judges made it clear to the woman that she cannot
    practice her faith freely.

     

    Azalina
    Jailani - who changed her name to Lina Joy in 1998, after converting to
    Christianity - appeared before a panel composed of three judges (two
    Muslims and one Hindu), who told her that her renunciation of Islam was
    "impossible without the permission of Muslim religious authorities".
    The judges clarified that the law "does not guarantee, nor does it
    provide a procedure which obliges the authorities to recognise a change
    in religion".

     

    Judge
    Sri Ram, a Hindu, held that the woman could renounce Islam by declaring
    that she was not a Muslim however he also added that religious freedom
    was guaranteed in Malaysia so there should be no need for her to seek
    permission.

     

    Lina
    Joy went to court to force the National Registration Department to
    replace the word "Islam" in her identity card with the word "Christian"
    so that she could be married in a civil ceremony to her Christian
    husband.

     

    The
    ruling affects about 15,000 Malaysians who want to be able to live
    openly as Christians. "The decision leaves many Malay converts in a
    perpetual state of limbo," said a Muslim lawyer who has represented
    apostates in court.

     

    The
    constitution defines as people of Malay race those citizens of Malaysia
    who profess Islam, speak the national language and practise Malay
    culture. Constitutionally, when Malays renounce Islam they cease to be
    Malay.

     

    "We
    are deeply disappointed ... we had a lot of hope riding on this
    decision," said another Malay Christian and mother of three children.
    "We Malays are non-persons in our own country because we are
    Christians."

     

    Although
    the law guarantees religious freedom, converts live in fear because
    Muslims consider apostasy to be a terrible crime. Malay Sharia (Islamic
    law) punishes apostates with forced "rehabilitation" or imprisonment,
    and the Koran warns of "death and damnation" for the Muslim who helps
    another to renounce Islam.


    Among converts are many students who changed faith while studying for a
    long time abroad. Others have married Christians and they want the
    Islamic authorities to recognize their faith and that of their
    families.

     

    A
    48-year-old Christian woman said: "We are discriminated and virtually
    live underground lives. Our parents, siblings and friends all shun us
    like lepers."

     

    Legal
    experts said political will was needed to recognise and resolve the
    dilemma of Malay apostates. "The problem can be resolved by amending
    the constitution and creating a new 'non-Muslim Malay' category," said
    an academic.

     

    Read transcripts of case and  judgment here on Malaysian Bar website dated 24 Sept 2005. 

    See also: Malaysian Bishops on living in the shodow of Sha'aria

     

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